🇲🇽 Mexico · 💰 Money · 40-49
I lent money to family without agreeing terms
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What happened
I lent my brother €12,000 for his business and never wrote anything down, because writing it down felt insulting. Four years later nobody mentions it and we barely speak.
What it cost me
€12,000
Time lost
4 years
Emotional cost
Bitter
What I learned
Write it down or treat it as a gift. There is no third option that keeps the relationship intact.
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